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《陈毅与家人“约法三章”》

推荐理由：陈毅元帅是中国人民解放军的创始人与领导人，著名军事家。他一生战功赫赫，为中国人民的独立自主立下了汗马功劳。他不但军事才能出众而且也极具政治天赋，曾担任上海市长、外交部长以及国务院副总理。他文武双全，博学多才，著有大量政治、军事论文和诗词。在此我推荐共和国开国元帅陈毅。

陈毅与家人“约法三章”

The Rules Between Chen Yi and His Families

陈毅元帅十分重视对子女的教育，他曾在1961年写就《示儿女》一诗，其中写道：“应知重理想，更为世界谋。我要为众人，营私以为羞。”

Marshal Chen Yi attached great importance to the education of his children. He wrote a poem To My Children in 1961, which reads, “we should pay attention to our ideals and also contribute to the world. I will be ashamed for personal benefits but the sake of the people.”

陈毅对亲属要求很严格，从来不准搞特殊化。1950年春，组织上把陈毅的父母和妹妹从四川老家接到上海来住。过了一段，陈毅督促妹妹自己去独立工作，并动员去报考学校。妹妹想上大学，请求哥哥写个条子或打个招呼。陈毅坚决不同意：“这样的条子我不能写，这种招呼我也不能打，我是共产党的上海市长嘛！你有本事自己去考，考不取就回四川。”后来，妹妹报考了卫校，被录取在上海市卫生人员训练班。

Chen Yi was strict with his relatives and never used his position to pursue any personal benefits. In the spring of 1950, his parents and little sister were brought by the Communist Party to live in Shanghai from their hometown Sichuan. After a period, he urged his sister to work independently and persuaded her to apply for a college. His sister wanted further study at college and asked him to make use of his network of interpersonal relationship. Chen Yi firmly refused, “I wouldn’t do that. I am the mayor of Shanghai of the Communist Party! If you can pass the examination, then stay in Shanghai, otherwise, go back to Sichuan.” Later, his sister applied for the medical school and was admitted to the Shanghai medical personnel training class.

陈毅和家人在一起，张茜（左），陈珊珊（右）

陈毅谆谆告诫子女要有为全人类谋幸福的远大理想，莫要当纨绔子弟，“浪荡”一生。在父母的教育和影响下，陈毅的子女都非常注意严格要求自己。三儿子陈小鲁与粟裕的女儿结婚时，正好是夏天，前去家里祝贺的宾客看到桌上仅放着一个大西瓜，俭朴的“西瓜宴”就成了“婚宴”。在陈毅的影响下，子女们耳濡目染，养成了良好的品质，在生活上不仅克勤克俭，而且待人谦和。陈毅住院期间，子女们对医护人员都非常敬重，主动取药、打扫楼道卫生。良好的家风，不仅成为子女们终生的骄傲，也让他们终生获益。

Chen Yi earnestly cautioned his children to have a great ideal of pursuing happiness for all mankind, and not to be boasting for a lifetime. Under the education and influence of Chen Yi, his children were also strict with themselves. It happened to be summer when Chen Xiaolu, his third son, married Su Yu’s daughter. The guests who went to the wedding saw only one big watermelon on their table, and the simple “watermelon banquet” became a wedding banquet. Under the influence of Chen Yi, his children have cultivated good qualities. They are not only diligent and thrifty but also humility. During Chen Yi’s hospitalization, his children showed their great respect to the medical staffs. They took medicine and cleaned the corridor by themselves. The excellent family tradition not only became the children’s pride, but also gave them benefits for their whole life.